Are you strong enough to break-up ?

If a woman cannot make you feel happy, WHY the f**k are you with her?
If a woman makes you cry once, she WILL make you cry again.
If a woman hits you once, she WILL hit you again.
If a woman is lying to you, nothing will make it stop and her lies will only grow.
If a woman is not moved by your tears, she will not care even if you die. It’s harsh, it’s true.
If a woman says, “Baby I am not sure,” don’t wait around for her to be.
If and when she is sure, she will seek you out. But DON’T wait. There was this guy who waited for this girl to be sure for five years, they got engaged too; and a week before the wedding, she called it off. Sure, there are men who do such things to women too, but hey! This is a start to a man's blogworld.

And most importantly, for WHATEVER reason that your woman turned nasty on you, it is NOT your fault. You don’t have to have a perfect mind. Or know every f**ker who ever sang just because your babe is interested in music. She reads and you don’t, great! Don’t kill yourself over it. What is the worst that can happen? That you will be alone? It’s far tougher managing to stay single than you can imagine! However, if at all you do end up staying alone, it is definitely better than living for and a with a woman who hurts you.

If and when you meet a woman who can love you, make you laugh, hug you, care for you and generally be what the woman you want – assuming you are being the man she wants too – give her all, love her to your heart’s content, have no shame in apologizing and don’t keep credit points when you do something for her. Be ready to stand by her, give her your support, your caress, the warmth of your body. Be her strength, vociferously, or silently. But only WHEN she does the EXACT things for you.

If she does not, get out and get out fast. You are a human being who deserves to be treated right. If you cannot love yourself yet – for whatever reasons – start by NOT letting another abuse or unlove you.

And remember ALWAYS; the moment a woman says, “I am not sure”, get out. A relationship is about taking the not-so-sure things in stride and WORKING around those. Not making a list of the workables and the non-workables and THEN deciding to get into things. Shrug!!. Perhaps, some people call that taking your time etc; but hey! If the babe can hang with you and do pretty much everything else BUT “give” her heart. Ha ha. The arsehole is making an ASS out of you.

Get out. Stop crying. Go have sex. Do anything. FIRST, get out and THEN we shall figure what to do next. Rest assured, life does NOT end at a break-up. No sir, that makes it easy and rather boring. Life continues and it’s up to you to make it rather boring pining for the jerk that treated you like sewage in the first place… or doing whatever else with it. Shrug.


PS: This is for all of You, who are having a hard time breaking up and are wondering whether you will get over, or where did it go wrong, or why did she do it, or what was lacking in me or oh-my-god how will I survive.